How to sign up and create your profile
Free sign-up step by step: choose couple, Her, bull or trans/CD, confirm your email and complete your profile in five steps, with town, boundaries and wishes.
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Guides: how to use BullWife
Step by step, with screenshots of the site: how to create your profile, find couples, women and bulls, write, suggest a meeting and protect your privacy.
Profile photos: public, private and faces hidden
How to upload profile photos, crop your profile photo and cover, choose public or private, mark faces hidden and choose whether to appear blurred in personals.
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How to find couples, women and bulls near you
A guide to Explore and the Map: find couples, women, bulls and trans people by town and distance, filter by age, boundaries and availability, save favourites.
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Messages, requests and meeting proposals
How messages work on BullWife: the first message is a request to accept or decline, then chat with view-once photos, voice notes, three-way chats and meetings.
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Last minute: posts for tonight and the weekend
How to post a last minute ad for tonight, tomorrow or the weekend, what to write, how expiry and replies work, and how to find couples, women and bulls nearby.
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Venues, trips and groups: the community beyond the chat
How to find swingers clubs, saunas and nights for couples and bulls with real reviews, plan a shared-cost trip with a couple or a bull, and join groups.
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Reading and publishing erotic stories and books in chapters
How to read, rate and comment on the community's erotic stories, write and publish your own under a pen name, save drafts and follow books in chapters.
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Notifications and the app on your phone
How to install BullWife on your phone like an app, turn on push notifications, choose what you get, set quiet hours and keep lock-screen alerts discreet.
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Privacy and safety: blocking, reporting and staying discreet
How to block and report profiles, messages and content, manage your blocks and use BullWife's privacy settings, from approximate location to private photos.
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