Venues, trips and groups: the community beyond the chat
Not just profiles and messages. On BullWife you'll find venues reviewed by people who have been there, trips to plan together and groups where you can talk with people who share your experiences.
Updated on November 1, 2026 3 min read
Many encounters start outside the chat: at a club, on holiday, in a discussion about a topic you care about. These are the three sections for that.
Venues: swingers clubs, saunas and nights out
In Venues you'll find swingers clubs, saunas and spas, theme nights and places that welcome couples and bulls all over Italy, with address, map, facilities, entry rules and prices.
- This week shows upcoming nights, with who can get in (for example "Singles welcome").
- Search by city or venue name, sort by distance and use the filters: Open tonight, Bulls and singles welcome, Verified by BullWife.
- Every city has its own page, like the venues in Milan.
On a venue's page you can read members' reviews from people who have really been there, and write one yourself. With I'm going you appear, only if you choose to, among the people going this week: an easy way to get to know each other beforehand and meet up there.
Is a place missing? From My venues you can suggest it; if you run it, you can add it or claim its page and update the programme, prices and rules yourself.
Trips: travelling together
In Trips, couples, women and bulls look for travel companions to share accommodation, costs and experiences with. It works in five steps:
- Proposal: the organiser sets the destination, dates, accommodation, places and estimated share of costs.
- Application: you introduce yourself with a message; the organiser decides, looking at your profile and compatibility.
- Get to know: group chat and a meeting before departure.
- Confirmation: the place is yours only when everyone says yes.
- Off we go: shared expenses, safety check-in and reviews when you're back.
You can search by destination, period, budget and type of trip (couple + bull, couples, woman + bull, mixed group). The site takes no money: everyone books and pays their own share, and the group keeps track of shared expenses directly in the trip.
Groups: discussions by topic
Groups are discussions between members, each around a topic: questions, experiences, advice. The editors open them, and inside each one everyone writes with their own profile.
Tap Join to take part: you can start a New discussion, reply and "Like" posts. Groups marked Official are curated by the editors.
Why it's worth taking part
- You get known without exposing yourself. A helpful review or a thoughtful reply in a group says more about you than lots of photos.
- You meet people who are already like-minded. Anyone who goes to the same venue or reads the same group already shares something with you.
- More safety. A club or an organised trip with clear rules is a great setting for a first time.
Screenshots show sample profiles, not real members.
