Cuckold in Turin: swingers clubs with spas, bulls and first meetings

This guide is for couples in and around Turin who are drawn to the cuckold or hotwife lifestyle and want to know where to begin. It covers the swingers clubs in the city and its inner suburbs, described only with the information we have, the BullWife tools for meeting a bull or another couple, advice for a calm first date and where to get tested in town.

If for now it's just a fantasy you talk about between yourselves, that's fine. Reading up is already a step, and it doesn't commit you to anything else.

Turin's cuckold scene: clubs with a spa

Turin is a large but understated city, ringed by its orbital road, with the hills on the far side of the Po separating it from the towns to the east. Among the couple-friendly venues in our directory, one feature stands out: several of the city's swingers clubs have a wellness area with a hot tub, sauna or steam room, and some open in the afternoon too. If you're new to this, that matters, because a quiet afternoon at a spa is an easy way to get used to an unfamiliar setting.

Besides the clubs in the city, there are two in the inner suburbs: one in Chieri, over the hill, and one in Collegno, on Corso Francia just outside the city limits.

The directory also lists other kinds of venues, such as gay saunas; you'll find them all on the Turin venues page.

Swingers clubs for cuckold couples in Turin

The big clubs with spas

New Olimpia is one of the largest swingers clubs in Italy, stating around 1,750 square metres indoors and 1,500 outdoors. It has a disco, a large wellness area with hot tubs, sauna, Turkish bath and a spa bar, and plenty of playrooms; on some weeknights there's a masseur. It's easy to reach from the centre, the ring road and the motorways. Reviewers praise the space, cleanliness and friendly staff, though some find the spa water not always as warm as they'd like. With so many rooms, regulars suggest starting on a weekday afternoon, when it's at its calmest.

Infinity Club by Imperial is a club with a spa that has been running for many years. At around 700 square metres, its regulars call it the right size: neither too big nor too small. The wellness area has a hot tub, sauna and steam room, with indoor and outdoor spaces, and massages can be booked on some afternoons. In the evening there's a dance floor, a bar, a much-praised buffet, several private rooms and a cinema room. Reviews call it intimate and clean, and people who were visiting a club for the first time say they felt comfortable once they got past their shyness. Here too, an afternoon in the spa is the gentlest way in.

A small club for the afternoon

Monella Club is a small club in the city, visited by couples, single men and people looking for a relaxing afternoon. Reviews describe it as discreet, clean and not crowded, with a hot tub (not a full spa) and a few private rooms downstairs. The owners are remembered as friendly and hands-on. One couple felt it suited single men more than couples, so given how small it is, ask ahead which days are busiest with couples.

Beyond the city: Chieri and Collegno

In Chieri, Elite Club Privé was opened recently by owners with long experience in the business, and it's convenient from central Turin and the motorways. Over two floors it has a disco, a cocktail bar, a sweet and savoury buffet and a playroom area with themed rooms, plus a large car park right outside. The few reviews so far are positive, mentioning welcoming owners and music kept low enough to talk: you can chat at the bar before deciding whether to move on to the private area. For a couple who want to take it slowly, that's a real plus.

In Collegno, on Corso Francia, there's Elisir Club Privé. There are no reviews or descriptions of the venue yet, so to find out who the evenings are for, which days it opens and how entry works, you'll need to ask the club directly.

The same advice applies to every venue: hours, events and entry rules can change, so check with the club before you go.

How to find a bull or a couple in Turin

A swingers club is one option, not a requirement. Many cuckold couples prefer to get to know someone online first, at their own pace, and only then decide whether to meet.

On BullWife, the public personals for Turin are the place to start:

• all personals in Turin;
• bulls in Turin;
• couples in Turin, for couple-to-couple meetings;
• women in Turin.

Once you're a member, Explore lets you filter profiles down to the people who really match what you're looking for. The Map shows who's around, and in Turin it often pays to widen the radius to the surrounding towns, from Collegno and Rivoli to Moncalieri and Chieri. If you feel like going out on the spur of the moment, Last minute lets you post a short ad that stays up only until it expires. And if you're travelling, say for a weekend in the mountains or an event in the city, Trips helps you let people know where you'll be.

Your profile is your introduction: say who you are as a couple, what you'd like to experience and where your limits are.

Your first meeting in Turin

A first date with a bull or another couple should be nothing more than a drink, and Turin, the home of vermouth, has a long tradition of the aperitivo. Pick a busy bar in the centre, for example in the Quadrilatero Romano, under the arcades of Via Po or in San Salvario. A lively place puts you at ease and leaves you free to say goodbye and leave if the chemistry isn't there.

A few fixed points:

• agree on the rules beforehand, by message: what's a yes, what's a no, what you'll decide on the night;
• use your own transport, both for the drink and for any club outside the city, so you never depend on someone else's lift;
• choose a signal to end the evening without having to explain;
• consent can be withdrawn at any time, by anyone.

For more, read our first meeting safety guide and the site guide on messages and requests.

Sexual health: testing and prevention in Turin

With more than one partner, regular screening for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and condom use are the basics, even without symptoms. The Italian National Institute of Health's EpiCentro portal explains the main STIs, how they're transmitted and how to prevent them (in Italian).

In Turin, the local health authority runs the Multidisciplinary Centre for Sexual Health (Ce.Mu.S.S.), with its STI clinics at Via Juvarra 19. It offers consultations for the main infections, including HIV, syphilis, gonorrhoea and chlamydia, as well as PrEP. You don't need a GP referral, but access is only after a phone triage with the nursing staff; check the health authority's page for current numbers and procedures.

Talking openly with your bull or the other couple, including when you were last tested, is part of mutual respect.

FAQ

Are there swingers clubs for cuckold couples in Turin?

Yes. In the city there are New Olimpia, Infinity Club by Imperial and the smaller Monella; in the suburbs, Elite in Chieri and Elisir in Collegno. None is exclusively for cuckold couples, but all are visited by couples.

Which club is best for a first visit?

Many reviewers describe Infinity as intimate and good for beginners, and Elite as a place where you can chat calmly at the bar. An afternoon in the spa at Infinity or New Olimpia is a good way to settle in.

How do I find a bull in Turin?

Browse the bull personals in Turin, then use Explore and the Map. Exchange a few messages and suggest a drink somewhere public before anything else.

Are any clubs open in the afternoon?

Yes: New Olimpia opens on some afternoons, many people visit Infinity in the afternoon when the spa is quiet, and Monella is recommended for a relaxing afternoon. Check the days with the venue.

Keep reading

If you're still exploring the idea, start with what cuckold means, what a hotwife is and what a bull is. For the harder emotions there's jealousy and compersion, and if you'd like to meet other couples, the couple swapping guide.

All the venues in Turin are in the directory and, when you're ready to take the first step, the guide on how to sign up explains everything.

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