Cuckold in Florence: a couples' guide to swingers clubs and bulls

Curious about exploring a cuckold fantasy in Florence but unsure how to go about it? This guide is for cuckold and hotwife couples, and for single women and bulls living in the city or the towns around it. Inside you will find the swingers clubs for couples listed in our directory, the tools for getting to know compatible people without rushing, and practical advice for a relaxed first meeting.

The couples' scene in Florence

Florence has a compact historic centre where familiar faces are never far away, surrounded by a ring of towns stretching towards Prato and Empoli. The couples' venues in our directory follow that map: one long-established club in the city, one in Campi Bisenzio just outside it, and one in the countryside near Fucecchio, towards the lower Arno valley.

Two of the three are run as private members' clubs, with a membership card taken out on your first visit, a common arrangement for couples' clubs in Italy. There are enough reviews to get a sense of each place, but as always, check nights, costs and rules with the venue before you set off.

Swingers clubs for couples in Florence and nearby

Florence and Campi Bisenzio

Royal Club Privé is one of the city's long-established clubs: it has been open since 1996 and is on via Domenico Michelacci. It welcomes couples and single men in an old-fashioned setting and is a private club, open to adult members only, with membership done on site. Visitors describe it as elegant, with kind owners; the weak point several reviews mention is turnout, which can be very low. Advice from people who have been: call ahead and ask whether you need to book, since at least one guest was turned away for not doing so, and find out which nights are busiest.

In Campi Bisenzio, a few kilometres from the centre, is The New Gamer. Entry is for members only here too, with the card issued on site. It opens in the evening from Wednesday onwards, and reviews mention clean spaces, good music, many playrooms including a BDSM-themed one, and staff who know how to put guests at ease. Many couples have treated it as their regular club for years. Criticism centres on Saturdays, when some say there are too many single men, and on other nights that can be quiet. The club only answers by phone or message, so ask there about nights and how things work.

In the countryside: Fucecchio

Il Molin, long known as Molin del Topo, sits in green countryside in Fucecchio, not far from Empoli. It has a long history and recently renewed management, and caters for couples, single men and a trans crowd. The venue is on two floors: a hall at the entrance with a bar and a vintage-style dance floor, with music chosen live by the DJ, and a play area with numerous rooms; in summer there is also a garden with a pool. Guests mention a generous buffet served as an apericena, with the music kept low enough to talk. Themed nights draw the biggest crowds, and some are dedicated to fetish or to the trans scene, so check the calendar and pick the one that matches what you are after.

For Campi Bisenzio, and especially for Fucecchio, your own car is the practical option. The Florence venues page also lists other places, such as saunas and entertainment venues, that are not designed for couples.

How to find a bull or a couple in Florence

Many couples would rather not start at a club. They chat first, get a feel for each other and decide later. BullWife offers several discreet ways to do that.

• Florence personals. The Florence personals show who is looking locally, with separate sections for bulls in Florence, couples in Florence and women in Florence.
• Explore. Use the filters in Explore to choose profile type, distance and interests; widen the radius to take in Prato, Pistoia or the Empoli area.
• Last minute. Last minute is for short posts for tonight or the weekend. They stay up until they expire, and you decide who to answer.
• Map. The Map shows who has chosen to be visible nearby at that moment, together with venues, always as an approximate area and never an exact location.
• Trips. Florence draws plenty of visitors. In Trips, couples, women and bulls look for travel companions to share accommodation, costs and experiences with, whether they are coming to the city or leaving it.

Write a clear profile that says what you want and where your boundaries are; it will save you a lot of pointless messages. To see how requests and conversations work, read the guide to messages and requests.

Your first meeting in Florence

The first date is about finding out whether the chemistry is there, nothing more. Some practical pointers:

• Pick a lively public place. A coffee in Piazza della Repubblica, or an aperitivo in Santo Spirito or Sant'Ambrogio: places where conversation flows naturally and anyone can leave whenever they like.
• Set the rules beforehand. Decide as a couple what is a yes and what is a no, then share it with the other person before you meet.
• Come and go on your own. By car, tram or taxi: nobody should rely on someone else to get away.
• Consent can always be withdrawn. At any moment, with no explanation owed. Anyone who pushes is not the right person.

For more, read our first meeting safety guide.

Sexual health

With more than one partner, condoms and regular STI testing are part of the basic rules, not an afterthought. Many sexually transmitted infections go unnoticed because they cause few symptoms or none.

Italy's Istituto Superiore di Sanità explains what sexually transmitted infections are and how to prevent them on its EpiCentro portal. The Tuscany Region notes that in public health facilities the HIV test needs no doctor's referral and is free and anonymous; for locations and arrangements, contact your local health authority, which in Florence is the Azienda USL Toscana Centro. Both pages are in Italian.

FAQ

Are there swingers clubs for cuckold couples in Florence?

Yes. In the city there is Royal, open since 1996; just outside, in Campi Bisenzio, The New Gamer; further out, in Fucecchio, Il Molin. Royal and The New Gamer are private members' clubs with membership done on site.

Do we need to book?

For Royal, reviews recommend calling ahead. The New Gamer only gives information by phone or message. In general, asking first is always the best move.

How do I find a bull in Florence?

Browse the bulls in Florence personals and use Explore with filters. Get to know each other by chat, then meet for a drink somewhere public before deciding anything.

Is Saturday the best night?

It depends on what you want. According to some reviews, Saturday is the busiest night at The New Gamer but with many single men, while at Il Molin it is the themed nights that draw the most people.

Further reading

If you are still exploring the fantasy, start with the cuckold meaning and the hotwife meaning, what a bull is and how to deal with jealousy and compersion. If meeting other couples appeals too, read our couple swapping guide.

Every venue is on the Florence venues page. If you do not have a profile yet, how to sign up explains everything.

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